I have not wanted to post this because I feel like it might come with some judgment, but that has never stopped me in the past, so here goes.
I agonized over Scoobs & the basketball team. On one hand, I was happy for him to have an opportunity to be tempered. To struggle. To feel out of sorts. To have a little bit of failure. Which sounds horrible as a mother. But we all know those are the experiences that make us who we are & I did not want to completely shelter him from 'real life.' Part of me was willing {tough as it may be} to stand on the sidelines & watch.
But then my heart broke as I thought about the 10 boys in the neighborhood playing t-ball together. Playing at practices & games weekly. Forging friendships & learning together. I could have kicked myself for not convincing him to play t-ball instead. It would not of been a tough sale. And truthfully, it was me that wasn't for t-ball initially. I mean, who wants to sit outside & watch t-ball in 90 degrees?? {Yes, it will be 90 degrees this week}.
Back & forth. Back & forth I thought to think up a suitable solution.
What it boiled down to, was I wish he was experiencing the fun of t-ball with his friends & not the hardships of basketball by himself. I know for a fact, he will have to have the 'size' struggle in sports one day...assuming he doesn't start growing at a giant pace that is. But he doesn't need to have it at 4.
Initially I was torn up about letting him 'quit' the basketball team. I mean, who wants a quitter? Then I realized, that I was making this a bigger deal than need be. It was okay for me to change my mind. It was okay for me to go down one path & realize I wanted another one instead.
So I called the basketball team. Pulled him from the league & got my money back even. Then I called the t-ball team & signed him up.
done.
And scoobs? He's tickled pink to be playing t-ball with is friends & shooting nerf baskets in the laundry room.
win-win.
Even better...I called my mom to tell her what I did & she literally breathed a sigh of relief & said she'd been up thinking about it.
And I have more thoughts on this that came yesterday while I was sitting in Sunday School, but they will have to wait...Scoobs is begging to beat me in Wii b-ball.
Monday, March 14, 2011
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I think that was a good decision! And really, if you and your little boy feel good about it, that's all that matters. I'm always told that I shouldn't ever feel like I have to explain myself, and I like that advice.
ps. I'm Jessie, i've been reading your blog for a little bit. I'm friends with Natalie Perry and she sent me the link to your blog a while back cause she thought I would enjoy it. And I do. Thought I would say hello.
Good for you! Mom's always know best for their kiddos!
Good job momma~
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